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Well then every woman has her own taste in man too... and I'm lazy to type out examples as I did for SW's 'Men's' post...

But then sweet talking... this is for all of you reading...
Men talk to get their way into women's hearts and ahem (skirts). But don't you see the insincerity in this art?

Ladies, if you're looking for a real man, don't go for smooth talker. He gets smooth in, he gets smooth out too. Real men don't talk sweet things. They talk sincere things and you can count on their integrity and sincerity.

Of course if you're out for just fun and nothing more, there's nothing I can say hehe :p

Different people different thought.
Maybe, at this moment what we want is A.
Then, tomorrow might be B.
Human being is just selfish and greedy creatures.
Agree?

pizxebe wrote:

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Don't you think that the qualities appears after you have a relationship?
When you fall into the love trap, then you will start to think about what is good and what is bad... and they become the qualities or requirements...
I always believe that if you tell yourself thousands time every day you love someone, then in the end you will love him/her... Or tell yourself you don't love someone, same....

Therefore, qualities is not important... they will appear after you have the target...

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So Loy Chee,

Let me try to understand how your mind thinks. So, you don't believe that you will pursue a particular person because you love them, instead that person will set a "trap" (like a Black Widow Spider) to trap the victim!

So once the victim is trapped, he or she just has to tell themselves 1000 times evryday that they love the person that trapped them and eventually you will love the "love predator"????

This makes absolutely no sense to me. If I ever found out I was tricked to love someone, I would be totally fuming mad!

Confused.

-- Edited by evanquah at 23:33, 2008-10-12

evanquah wrote:

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pizxebe wrote:

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Don't you think that the qualities appears after you have a relationship?
When you fall into the love trap, then you will start to think about what is good and what is bad... and they become the qualities or requirements...
I always believe that if you tell yourself thousands time every day you love someone, then in the end you will love him/her... Or tell yourself you don't love someone, same....

Therefore, qualities is not important... they will appear after you have the target...

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So Loy Chee,

Let me try to understand how your mind thinks. So, you don't believe that you will pursue a particular person because you love them, instead that person will set a "trap" (like a Black Widow Spider) to trap the victim!

So once the victim is trapped, he or she just has to tell themselves 1000 times evryday that they love the person that trapped them and eventually you will love the "love predator"????

This makes absolutely no sense to me. If I ever found out I was tricked to love someone, I would be totally fuming mad!

Confused.

-- Edited by evanquah at 23:33, 2008-10-12

 

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to loychee
the sentence :
I always believe that if you tell yourself thousands time every day you love someone, then in the end you will love him/her... Or tell yourself you don't love someone, same....

sounds like him, trying to say he loves someone : u know who, very close to him, from young
I think he is doing it all the time, trying to make himself love her more even though she has her other half d. u see...... the trap he means is this situation

haha i have decipher his words......

 

i will say...if ur capable....u can get a gf easily but not a gf who love u true heart.....thye love u bcoz ur capable..can earn money..bright future...i would rather find a gf that love me when i got nothing......hehe...that is my gf.....hahahah...she love me whn i got nothing......

I don't think that's a trap. Usually, you trap your pets more than you trap women. I think you have to change your attitude already. Go trap more girls, MAN!!!!!!

A home caring guy, important one. Like sports, wise, wide knowledge, well behaved and good manners, a guy who willing to put someone he loves infront of him.

weechinteng wrote:

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I don't think that's a trap. Usually, you trap your pets more than you trap women. I think you have to change your attitude already. Go trap more girls, MAN!!!!!!

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 Yo friend,

Your post is confusing le. One moment your asking people to change their attitude, and the next your asking them to "Go trap more girls".

 

evanquah wrote:

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MingChee wrote:

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A home caring guy, important one. Like sports, wise, wide knowledge, well behaved and good manners, a guy who willing to put someone he loves infront of him.

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Oooooooo!
Have I got news for you my friend. I have someone to introduce to you.
In fact, you already know him and he knows you aswell.
He fits most of the traits you desire. He too seeks a Nice Homely Girl and Sporty.
Whether or not he is wise, good mannered and well behaved, I'm not so sure, and that is debatable.
But I can definitely assure you that he is WIDE!

Hehehe, wait till I inform him for you and set up a date for you guys.

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Wow, are you talking about yourself?
wahahahaha

evanquah wrote:

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MingChee wrote:

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A home caring guy, important one. Like sports, wise, wide knowledge, well behaved and good manners, a guy who willing to put someone he loves infront of him.

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Oooooooo!
Have I got news for you my friend. I have someone to introduce to you.
In fact, you already know him and he knows you aswell.
He fits most of the traits you desire. He too seeks a Nice Homely Girl and Sporty.
Whether or not he is wise, good mannered and well behaved, I'm not so sure, and that is debatable.
But I can definitely assure you that he is WIDE!

Hehehe, wait till I inform him for you and set up a date for you guys.

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Got guy like this? Who? Boleh memperkenalkan ar?

Dude, this is part of critical thinking....

MingChee wrote:

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I have a news for everyone..

I'm not sure what qualities that women look for in James, but I'm sure he sure does have something special and attractive. He has Caroline, and now there's another girl deeply attracted to him.

Yesterday after CPR post mortem meeting, someone at last confessed to James in the car... She said "I want to follow you forever, James..."

Dear instructor Kenneth and Loy Chee, please don't be jealous that Kah Lai at last confessed to James...

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WOW! Not bad for James.
I can see he has been learning tricks from Jun Yuan. Now can start playing in the field. Has girls throwing themselves at him.
Poor, poor Kenneth and Loy Chee. Don't feel sad. You guys musn't give up. Keep fighting on for her.

 

Wow, happy to hear that. It shows that we are very close to each otehr like a family~

pizxebe wrote:

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Wow, happy to hear that. It shows that we are very close to each otehr like a family~

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Loy Loy, don't give up on Kah Lai since you always call her "nice curry" (Zheng Kah Lee).. Rather saying she's your cup of tea, I prefer said that she suits your taste... You like curry~

MingChee wrote:

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pizxebe wrote:

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Wow, happy to hear that. It shows that we are very close to each otehr like a family~

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Loy Loy, don't give up on Kah Lai since you always call her "nice curry" (Zheng Kah Lee).. Rather saying she's your cup of tea, I prefer said that she suits your taste... You like curry~

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No, I am a rubbish bin. Sometimes I eat everything. Sometimes not.

i think there is reali a trend now..whoever going to be the cpr department head will become famous....hahaha...
anyway..my opinion is:
1)never be too confidence of his talent(have to find out myself)
2)always look happy,fresh and charm(dun wan look like die fish)
3)outlook cant be too ......(at least u can bring him home)
4)know a lot of stuff(can help me to settle problems when i gt stuck)
5)THE FEELING on him(this will be most IMPORTANT things no matter who is him!!!)

yeah.....

evanquah wrote:

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elaine wrote:

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CT,
wherever Evensat is, wherever rumours spread right
Evan don simply get honor as Evansat, spread rumours is his reaponsibility
this makes him happy and gives him meaning of life, hahaha

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Walau, I'm very insulted!
After this I refuse to post anymore new updates on the forum.

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Gosh he merajuk!!

different woman will hav different idea.
well, according to a reserach i read some where in the world wide web, i our life, we can meet totaly abt 20000 ppl that potentially to make a husband n wife relationship, but if ur BF/GF comes first, den the rest of 19999 ppl will either be ur best fren or just passes through ur life with nothing.

Now the women have different perception already.

In the series on NTV7 at 9.45Pm, they said that the girls will feel save when the man have professional occuption, house, car and the most important is $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.

I don't know how true is that. According to them also, ladies will seek for true love then only have sex. This series really horrible, should ban it!

weechinteng wrote:

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Now the women have different perception already.

In the series on NTV7 at 9.45Pm, they said that the girls will feel save when the man have professional occuption, house, car and the most important is $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.

I don't know how true is that. According to them also, ladies will seek for true love then only have sex. This series really horrible, should ban it!

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Actually, there is truth in that statement. Studies have shown that the different desires of men and women are due to differences in the biological make-up of the male and female brains and also basic laws of survival.

Physiologically speaking, men tend to be more easily aroused by physical objects such looking at attractive mates etc. They are more influenced and governed by their hormones. This is why sex is of more importance.

In women, they are more in tune with their psychological needs. Being more emotional beings, they are in tune with their feelings. As mentioned earlier, they seek more abtract needs like fullfillment, security, reliabillity etc.

From the biological aspect of sex and reproduction. In males, sperm is a relatively cheap commodity to produce. (Sorry guys, but it is the truth) It is the basic instinct of the male gene to spread his genetic material as widely as possible, thus mating with as many mates as possible. Eggs however are more costly to produce. In addition, females are the primary caregiver to the young, and in long-lived species like human beings, it can take decades just to raise a single offspring. This is why it is the women's perogative to seek the best possible mate she can find to assist her in bringing up the young. 

Finally, just because one does not necessarily understanding something, one should not ban it. It makes one no better than a religious extremist which wants to control everything. Try to be more open and take to differrent view to things.

Understanding is the cure to the ailmnents in this world.

Good post Evan, and totally agree with that one.

Without doubt, males are very much visual creatures...

edwinkon wrote:

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different woman will hav different idea.
well, according to a reserach i read some where in the world wide web, i our life, we can meet totaly abt 20000 ppl that potentially to make a husband n wife relationship, but if ur BF/GF comes first, den the rest of 19999 ppl will either be ur best fren or just passes through ur life with nothing.

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i believe i read the same article too and i'm totally agree with that.

those a bit late, either will be ur best friend, or become the Mr. right, we won't know~

everyone has their outstanding traits, as well as weaknesses,

as long as both are happy together, what else to complaint?

"love who you love, care what you care"

-- Edited by elaine at 04:43, 2008-10-31

To Su Yin and Elaine;
Thanks for the comments. Glad you appreciated it.