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Wow Evan is back to forum!!
Wei Inn is more like our mummy in the corps, when is she going to bring a daddy for us?? =P

pizxebe wrote:

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Wow Evan is back to forum!!
Wei Inn is more like our mummy in the corps, when is she going to bring a daddy for us?? =P

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My, my, dear Loy Chee. How dare you refer to Wei Inn as mummy. Very berani ah you.

You must remeber, once we have reached a certain age, we become very concious of our age. You do not want to end up insulting or offending someone.

 

junyuan wrote:

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haha.... yalo

agree, especially to girls..

but evan, do u conscious so much abt ur age?? well... i believe the older u get, the more mature u will be, n the more attractive... for men....

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To be frank and honest, age affects everyone whether we like it or not. It is the one truth that we can't run away from. It's just that it affects some sooner and others later.

I'll admit, when I was younger, I wanted so badly to grow up and mature so that I would be taken seriously. But once you hit a certain point, things change. You begin to realize all the things we used to take for granted when we were younger. We miss those things and wish we could have it back. Regrets that were never fullfilled.

So, I'll admit it. Yes. I"m worried at my age. I worry that I've hit my prime and there other way but downhill from now on. I worry for chances, moments, people, etc that have passed without me realising them and I will never get the chance to live them again. 

Growing old SUCKS!

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pizxebe wrote:

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evanquah wrote:

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pizxebe wrote:

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Wow Evan is back to forum!!
Wei Inn is more like our mummy in the corps, when is she going to bring a daddy for us?? =P

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My, my, dear Loy Chee. How dare you refer to Wei Inn as mummy. Very berani ah you.

You must remeber, once we have reached a certain age, we become very concious of our age. You do not want to end up insulting or offending someone.

 

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Evan, please don't misunderstand me, Wei Inn is so caring and nice to other people just like my mummy... that is the attractive part of Wei Inn..

Getting older is not getting more mature, I agree that..

 

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What if the daddy turns out to be 'J' to the 'C' ?

edwinkon wrote:

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age is not a barrier?
i dun think so.
consider the following case.
a 20yo girl with a 40yo guy? may be at the starting, the girl would feel very good as the 40yo guy is matured enough to take care her.But think abt Long term relationship.
do u think the girl will happy when she is 30yo, her husband already 50!
how? any idea? may be some will said true love wont care abt this. to me , i feel that true love not evrything, one day that girl sure will regret.

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There is some truth in what you say, but then again, you do not speak for everyone. This is another reflection of the shallowness of many people, we only want to be with someone when they look good or presentable. When the person is already old or past their prime, they are no longer considered worthy.

This brings up the question, why are you with that person in the first place? Was it for pure material gains? Was he/she rich? Or was that person good looking? A model? Someone you could obtain good genes from to make beautiful children? What was it?

So, once that person has lost that particular quality that you valued in the first place, he/she is now considered unworthy anymore. If you are with the person for his/her personality, soul, inner qualities, do these change over time? Can they be lost?

Many questions, just like the many flaws of being human. We are all fickle and indecisive. One moment we want this, and the next we want something else.

Sigh! 

evanquah wrote:

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edwinkon wrote:

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age is not a barrier?
i dun think so.
consider the following case.
a 20yo girl with a 40yo guy? may be at the starting, the girl would feel very good as the 40yo guy is matured enough to take care her.But think abt Long term relationship.
do u think the girl will happy when she is 30yo, her husband already 50!
how? any idea? may be some will said true love wont care abt this. to me , i feel that true love not evrything, one day that girl sure will regret.

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There is some truth in what you say, but then again, you do not speak for everyone. This is another reflection of the shallowness of many people, we only want to be with someone when they look good or presentable. When the person is already old or past their prime, they are no longer considered worthy.

This brings up the question, why are you with that person in the first place? Was it for pure material gains? Was he/she rich? Or was that person good looking? A model? Someone you could obtain good genes from to make beautiful children? What was it?

So, once that person has lost that particular quality that you valued in the first place, he/she is now considered unworthy anymore. If you are with the person for his/her personality, soul, inner qualities, do these change over time? Can they be lost?

Many questions, just like the many flaws of being human. We are all fickle and indecisive. One moment we want this, and the next we want something else.

Sigh! 

 

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 true love, that's everyone final destination in a relationship.

I cant see the future of a relationship that has a 20yo gap.

Anyway, everyone would hav different needs. Actually if the man is good to his young wife, by right should be alright. Good, secure live promised by the man. If that girl satisfy , den they can proceed til the end of their life-a happy ending.

But bared in mind, 20yo age gap means u two will actually having a totally different lifestyle. so, all this should be considered.

well.. we as side viewer will never noe how is exactly the feeling of young-old couple. unless u been in it before.

after all, it is their own freedom to choose their companion. there will be no pro if they really can lead a happy life forever and ever. even nowadays, young-young couple that can live forever and ever de is very less ad.

somemore old-young couple is better than guy-guy or gal-gal couple ba.. (no discriminating)

so... where is the starter of this topic, evan go??

junyuan wrote:

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so... where is the starter of this topic, evan go??

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I've been busy of late. Haven't had much time to log in. Even when I do, I just take a quick read.
Don't worry, I'm still around. Haven't gone anywhere. Quietly reading from the side lines...